Nearly everyone has had the experience of moving to a new city. While this can be a stressful time, it also brings great benefits to those willing to stretch their horizons. Instead of thinking of the comfortable surroundings you left behind, try focusing on the new opportunities you might not have found back home.
One of the most exciting features of a new city is its geography. If you're in an entirely new region of the country, take a Saturday off to go exploring the fresh scenery. Ask your neighbors where to find a good park or walking trail, and let those packed boxes stay packed for a couple more hours. The downsides of the move will be greatly minimized if you learn to see the unique beauty of your new home. Most cities have a state park somewhere near, and all of them have playgrounds if the kids need some rowdy outside time.
It works for kids at a new school and it will work for you - join a club. You'll meet new folks and maybe even learn something along the way. The variety of clubs available almost guarantees that you'll find one that matches your interests. Athletic clubs, scrapbooking clubs, and art appreciation clubs (like of a book- or movie-of-the-month club) may be your springboard into long-lasting friendships.
Always keep an eye out for local magazines; they will feature activities and usually a calendar of events that you can use to keep your schedule open. One of the best ways to feel like part of the community is to participate in a state or local fair. Enter the cook-offs, or if you're not feeling culinary, try your hand at some art. You may win some money, but in any case you'll get to see your work alongside that of the locals.
If you're a foodie, remember that every city has its unique restaurants. Some will be pricier than your average chain, but really deliver when it comes to the entrée. Others may surprise you with their low-cost, high-quality approach. Flip through the “Restaurants” section of the yellow pages and see what grabs your eye. A new city/new food journal would be a fun way to keep track of your experiences.
For the history buff, take the “innocents abroad” approach: hit the downtown and historical districts with a notebook in hand and jot down your findings. Your new city has a fascinating history all its own. Keep an eye out for historical markers and old architecture. Some historic homes have been restored for the public and hold open house days, particularly around Christmas time. You'll bond with the city more quickly if you get a feel for its colorful past.
Don't forget to ask the locals for tips; they will be able to point you to the best areas for your hobbies, whether you are a birdwatcher or a jazz enthusiast. People love to talk with newbies about their hometown, so you'll probably get more good leads than you can use in a month!
In the end, what matters is your outlook. A move can open doors you might never have explored otherwise. So get out there. Look at your new city with enthusiasm and you may find a newer, more talented self.
