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That Which Was Never Asked

The subject dealt with is quite sensitive. It raises a question which the new generation needs to ponder over.

In Our day to day lives we come across many questions and I guess we are answered almost each one of them.And also in our daily lives itself we come across certain questions that are never asked yet needs to be answered. According to my belief, all of us are even aware of them but in some way or the other we ignore it every time it is put on us.Let me be precise on the subject I am moving to share with all the readers.Friends, it is about no one than our own parents and about the get and give in this relationship.

Lets recall some of the questions we asked our parents when we were kids. I know its going to be tough to recall all of them,but and effort will help us remind us a few. Well there were several categories of questions,some good some logical,some funny,to some intellectual ones, where every what followed a why.For an example:What is this mom? This a moon Sweetie. why?Do any one of us has an answer for this why? But yes our moms did have because she loves.That is a moon only so that you my dear can call it so.There were many such silly questions we asked our parents.whatever answers may be but came out of love an unconditional and selfless love.The one thing that should be given a thought at this point is that they valued even silliest of our queries because they valued us.

When we are grown up and open to the world around us,we hardly answer any questions asked by our parents.Yes the stage where our parents ask us questions.Where have you been? why are you so late?Are u alright?the questions of concern mistaken for domination.One answer to all of three: That's none of your business. The more casually the question is asked the more arrogantly it is replied. However rude the answer but the question is answered.

At a more later stage of life when we are well settled with all amenities and comforts we desired and when they are old enough to see or hear, walk or talk properly,they have been asked to leave for an old age home.The ones who loved cared and nurtured are left all alone to live a hard life on hard road with weak feet. Thereafter are no questions and no answers.The session has expired.There is complete silence, a silence only to break only within themselves.the silence that leaves a question that was never asked but needs to answered.Why do you show the doors of an old age home to us when we never showed you the door to an orphanage?

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#1 by Nirmal, Aug 8, 2008
Very touchy article.
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