Begin Early
It doesn't matter whether you are a traditional parent or a modern one. You should practice whatever parenting method you choose as soon as possible. Sounds absurd? Maybe it does, but even as a baby, your child reacts to things you say and do. You should therefore look into yourself and be certain that you are consistent with your values and personal rules without being unreasonably rigid.
Listen to Your Parents
You may find your folks old fashioned. You may even have had some differences in opinion with them as a teen. Logic dictates though that they have been way ahead of you in the crib. You may not always agree with them but they've certainly been parents in the best way that they could be. Besides, they may know better how to change a diaper and they may teach you if you just ask and pay attention.
Research
You may think that all those PhDs are pulling your foot but they have an attachment to their names for a reason. They may actually know some good points that you can use as a parent. It may do you good to invest in some good parenting books and videos to help you with your growing child.
Be Discriminating
Even as you stock up on those books and videos, be sure to separate applicable advice from what is not. Understand that you are a unique parent and your child is a unique child. No matter how qualified all those professional advisers are, your family may have its own special ways, habits and modes of thinking. This is especially true in the aspect of discipline. Some kids will simply react better to logical one on one talks rather than to stern glances and vice versa.
Get to Know Your Child
As soon as your child gains some level of independence, work on being her buddy. Research on her habits, hobbies, friends, likes and dislikes and everything else. Getting down or up to your child's level and relating to her in her world will help you understand her better. It will also help you look for answers to parenting problems.
Be Subtle
Discovering your child is an ever dynamic process, but while you're at it, don't be so obvious. Be subtle in whatever you're at. Your child will not appreciate you participating in her slumber party.
Enjoy
The best parenting tip of all is to simply just enjoy. It may be a good idea to occasionally worry and reassess yourself, but don't overdo it. Take the time to just look at her and appreciate the joyful miracle of life.
