Now when tells you that when you going to have a baby all the problems it might entail like problems with the birth at the end.When i had my second son i wanted to have a home birth didn't think off problems that would happen.But the time came i couldn't there was hardly any water round me and if i didn't make the decision of having the baby early then its date me and my baby son would have died.It doesn't say in any baby books that there give me at the hospital about this and too me it was one hell of a shock.Finding i could have died all because of this birth.I was healthy didn't drink or smoke and then this problem comes out of the blue.Another item there dont say in any baby books that problems with the baby like cant breathe on its own or its heating either.
My son was very poorly there didn't think he would make the weekend he was very weak and not keeping any milk down. But oh my i got depressed and wanted to creep out with him under my arm but the nurses were so fantastic and then and prayers that my son made it hes now 9 years old. But there is so many mothers starting out having children that are maybe going to face problems like this that there isn't any magazines that can help them. Now times might have change and boyfriend and husband can stay and birthing pools. But i think that things like these serious issues need to bring to light what can happen in birth.
As Well as my older son had to have a operation when he was one as he had web fingers. So you see i have had my problems with child birth. Another there don't tell how long the labour pains are and will it ever end. There tell to have hot baths and bounce on plastic balls it all very well but when you feel like hell and havent had a good night sleep for week feeling sluggish and week the last thing is wanting to look a fool bouncing on a ball.
The sensation of having a baby is really werid you feel like its not you as gripping the gas and holding on to your husband hand feeling very sick and asking how much longer. But when you see that tiny head appear and then its ended and its handed to you you feel so much love for that baby its like your special bond that you cant explain. All them pains are forgotten and your ready to be a loving mother to it. Its easy then it was years ago so much easy to sterlise baby bottles and now nappies that you can throw away.
But it would so much better if baby came with a manal book like a car telling us were we can go wrong with children as there get older.
