I remember the times when I thought, one day I'll retire my parents, the day I'm truly successful; he'll be there, that day will be my happiest day; until than I must work, push, work. I didn't take time off when I should've. I didn't make time for my friends and family. Living oceans apart makes things a bit more difficult; you can't just jump in the car and go. Days, weeks, months, years went by and one day my dad got very ill. I refused to believe it's serious. I refuse to believe that I could lose my dad. And than one day I got a phone call from my mom. I was fortunate to be able to make it home on time to hold his hand and say "good bye". I was angry, sad, my heart was filled with guilt and regret.
As much as I miss him and would love to be with him, I am very grateful for all the times we did have.
Let us not forget to make time for those we love. Honor your dad and if he's still around, spend some quality time with him. Don't wait for that perfect day, the perfect situation or perfect timing. It may never come. Enjoy the NOW!
To my dad and yours!
Happy Fathers Day!
