Family conflicts have been known to cause many damages to all member involved in that family. It leads to various things like divorce between parents. It has also been discovered to affect the mind of a growing child psychologically.
Due to family conflict, kids have always seemed to think that their parents do not love them.
Now when it comes to a separating parent, one parent will always try to frustrate the other party. Mostly by using legal means to reduce the other person financial status. And also gaining more status than the other parent.
There are also other actions like misuse of government aid and agencies. Frustrating child exchange. The parent in possession of the child laying accusation on the other parent, making it a problem for the other parent. Their actions also affect the child. For example, not allowing the child to attend special family function scheduled at a non-visiting time.
All these actions are due taken due the anger they have for the other party and an thereby taking revenge.
But on thing I feel is that, most causes of family conflicts are the unequal share of power among the parent. One of the parties would always try to claim superiority and the other will never like to be under. This always leads to constant misunderstanding, thereby leading to many other things.
SOLUTION.
Creating a power balance among parents will go a long way in curbing family conflicts. This produce a conflict free environment, leading to any other hazards it might cause to the society and their children.
Any idea made available for the creating of a conflict free family will need enforcement. When these ideas are given a strong backing and of course a good foundation, they will be only few severe conflicts that will not adhere to this ideas.
The court orders should state equity and fairness. Not abiding by orders of the court, enforcement agencies should be put to work so as to show how strong the enforcement is.
There should be equal participation to the financial need of the child. This could be made sure by an equitable checking of both parents income. This is to make sure neither of the party losses or wins.
All these are to show the parents that there have equal responsibilities to the welfare of their child.
There should also be participation of third party such as extended family. The use of therapist, counselors and physicians should be applied.
